How to Succeed - Life's Battles Don't Always Go to the Stronger Or Faster Man

Vince Lombardi said, "Life's battles don't always gothe project in question. What is not working will
to the stronger or faster man. But sooner orbecome more evident and steps can be taken to
later the man who wins, is the man who thinks healter the course of the experiment and bring it to
can." Another way of saying, "It's not what youthe desired outcome.
have but what you do with what you have thatThe next step that can be taken to acquire that
counts." - so long as you believe.sense of certainty is to keep the focus on the
Faith is the great denominator. With it, almostdesired outcome. It is a well accepted fact that
anything is possible. Without it the road becomeswe keep on moving in the direction that we are
long and hard if not downright inaccessible.looking at. It is a fact that is even drilled in the
Certainty has been called, "the winner's edge."mind of race car drivers. When the car starts
Very few winners have been able to make itsliding toward the fence, the natural impulse is to
without it.look at that fence. Race car drivers know better.
The problem with faith and certainty is that youThey know that if they look at the fence,
can't fake it. Either you have it or you don't. Wechances are that that's where they will end up.
might be able to fool someone else but we can'tHowever, if they look in the direction that they
fool ourselves. How then can we acquire thesewant to go, if there is any chance at all to do it,
two essentials elements?they will.
The first thing that has to be done is to stopFaith and certainty are character traits that can
thinking in terms of failures. There are no failuresbe developed. It's called self-confidence and
only outcomes. Just because the expected resultsself-confidence is a belief and a belief is nothing
were not achieved does not mean thebut a notion that is supported by evidences. If we
experiment was a failure. It means thatcan find enough evidences that we are strong,
something was lacking in the planning or in theconfident and a winner, that's how we will see
execution of the project. It also means that weourselves. Not only is it the way that we will see
have learned what will not work and with this newourselves but it's also the way that we will act.
knowledge we can start over again and achieveThat is, with faith and certainty.
the desired outcome.We were all born to be great in our own way.
The second thing that should be done it to startThe seed of greatness was implanted in us at
looking at new projects or ventures asbirth. Our life long job is to find that seed, nurture
experiments because that is what they are. Noit, feed it, protect it and see it grow. The only
one can fail an experiment. Robert Pirsig said, "Anfailure that truly exists is the failure to try. If we
experiment is never a failure solely because it failsdon't ever try, failure is the only possible outcome.
to achieve predicted results. An experiment is aIt is a well known fact that a ship will rust out and
failure only when it also fails adequately to testwear out faster if it stays in port rather than
the hypothesis in question, when the data ittravel the open sea. It's the same with us
produces don't prove anything one way orhumans. It's trough challenges and adversity that
another."we expand and grow. It's also how we acquire
No matter what the intended objective is, ifthe faith and certainty that leads to
we've never done it before, it's an experiment toself-confidence. And, with self-confidence, almost
test a thesis. Viewed in this light, we become aanything is possible.
scientist who can take a more objective view of