Never Doubt Your Ability - A True Story of Triumph Over Opposition

It was by way of my own personal experiencespeople that have the doubting Thomas syndrome
that I chose to share this story in the hopes thatusing my successful Internet business. Anything
it will inspire you to never doubt your ability.associated with the Internet meets natural doubt
It doesn't matter if you have aspirations inand skepticism. People in general don't understand
business, sports, music or whatever. To aspire tothe value of leveraging the Internet.
any greatness you will, without fail, encounterMost don't perceive Internet Marketing as a real
people that will doubt you...doubt your ability, yourjob. What does a "real job" mean anyway? A real
talents, or even the whole idea in general.job is what you make of it. Just because we
People are quick to make judgments especiallychoose not to work a straight 40, which easily
about things they know nothing about orturns into 60 or 80, doesn't make us irresponsible
understand. Even John Lennon's family said "aactually it makes us smart.
guitar is great for a hobby, but it won't earn youNot too long ago, I had a conversation with a
any money." I too have experienced thisfamily member about a speaker at a marketing
indifference my whole life. I'm living proof thatevent I had attended regarding wealth
people's criticism and condemnation hold absolutelymanagement. The doubt and negativity was
no power and had no influence on me.astounding and it spread like wild fire with more
When we were children we all had dreams ofpeople getting involved to ask questions. Those
what we wanted to be, where we wanted to live,who had accepted mediocrity as a way of life
who we wanted to meet. What happened? Aswould ask, "how much is that going to cost you?"
adults we claim that we grow up and that all"How soon before you lose your investment?"
those dreams were just silly kids stuff. I say b.s.,Legitimate questions, I suppose, but they should
we don't grow up we just grow old.have asked, have you got any information to look
When we lose those dreams because of "real life"at? When do you expect the investment to
we have nothing to aspire to and grow old in amature?
lifestyle of mediocrity. Everything great that hasAfter that conversation, I came to the firm belief
ever been done came from an idea, dream,that society in general is addicted to
vision, or whatever you want to label it. Edisondisappointment, they spend so much time
dreamt about the electric light, Marconi dreamtwallowing around in doubt and disbelief that they
about the device that could broadcast soundactually accept disappointment as part of their
waves (the radio). What do you dream about?daily course. As Andy Andrews eloquently states
The better question is what are you going to do"We spend too much of our lives doubting our
about it?beliefs and believing our doubts." I hate to be the
I'll give you an example, when I was eight my dadbearer of bad news but if you look closely at the
bought me a racing kart, top speed about 60people around you, you'll see the same.
mph, we won our first race in our second try,I only bring this up because if you are not a
mom was not happy about the dangerousdoubting Thomas by nature or it hasn't been
activity, and I remember my father telling herpushed upon you over time, you are not and I
that this is only a fad it will pass. I thought therepeat "not" alone. There are many of us who
heck it will; I told my family that I want to be achoose to stand up and say "no, my dreams are
race car driver, not just any driver, an Indy 500not foolish and what I decide to be successful at
driver. Well, that went over like a lead balloon.is entirely up to me, I will succeed despite your
They patted me on the head and said "maybecriticism and skepticism because I have faith in
someday, but if not it's nice to dream anyway."myself." Most people put reason and rationalization
As I grew up, still racing, many people wouldat the top of their list, which is not necessarily
make comments, not about my driving, but aboutwrong, but faith should go right along with it.
my goal (Indy). They'd snicker or even outright"Faith is a better guide than reason...reason can
laugh, I thought what's the big deal other peopleonly take you so far...faith has no limits."
have driven the 500 why not me. I faced this forIn closing, stick to your goals and ambitions you
more than 15 years, but I was never deflectedwill succeed and don't let anyone tell you different,
from my original sense of purpose, I knew I couldput the skeptics and disbelievers in their place,
and would do it.about a mile behind you, because in the end that's
I was persistent and had a decided heart...nothingwhere they'll end up anyway. Do what you really
would stop me. I assure you after much struggleand I mean "really" want to do...decide your own
and heartache I did make it. I made it to Indy'sreality. We are on this planet for such a short
doorstep and I know for sure that I'll be back. Totime make the most of it, time is the only
quote Andy Andrews "an athlete does not enjoycommodity you can't purchase and once lost it is
the pain of training; an athlete enjoys the resultsgone forever.
of having trained."Here's to your success.
Let me give you another example regarding